Keith Perez

honor what's hard

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Honor What’s Hard

The hard things aren’t distractions from your life — they’re invitations into your strength.

We waste so much energy trying to avoid difficulty.
Praying it away. Numbing it. Delaying it.
But maturity means learning to honor what’s hard — not as punishment, but as a teacher.

Hard things are the gym of the soul.
They reveal who you are, and who you could become.

Why This Matters

Most people miss their growth season because they mislabel it:
“This is an attack.”
“This is unfair.”
“This is too much.”

But many of the hardest seasons are actually sacred ones.
Not everything painful is bad.
Not everything easy is blessed.

Sometimes, God doesn’t remove the thorn.
He teaches you how to carry it well.

What It Looks Like to Honor the Hard

  • You name the weight, but don’t resent it.
  • You let difficulty develop you, not define you.
  • You stop asking “why me?” and start asking “what now?”
  • You let pressure shape your character, not shrink your identity.
  • You choose response over reaction. Presence over panic.

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children.”
— Hebrews 12:7

Practice: How to Walk This Out

  • Pause before complaining. Ask: What could this be forming in me?
  • Shift your language. From “this sucks” → “this is shaping me.”
  • Journal your formation. Track how the hard things are building strength, faith, clarity.
  • Talk to God, not just about the problem. Let Him interpret the pain.
  • Bless the pressure. Not because you love pain — but because you love who you’re becoming through it.

What Happens When You Do

  • You stop living at the mercy of your circumstances
  • You become emotionally resilient, not emotionally fragile
  • People start coming to you in crisis because your peace carries weight
  • You grow in authority — not just platform
  • You stop bowing to comfort and start walking in purpose

Connected Notes

Final Word

Some of the most spiritually mature people don’t have easy lives —
they have deep roots, built through storms.

Don’t just endure the hard.
Honor it.

Let it forge you.

There is treasure hidden in what you’re trying to escape.

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